DEATH/SUICIDE IS NOT THE SOLUTION. -->HOW TO SURVIVE PROBLEMS, DISASTERS, DEATH OF MOST WANTED PERSON & how u can think cool for any problems

It is always how you could think at the moment makes YOU, or that is your Actual Personality.

I know it will be almost impossible or very difficult for you to follow what I am going to say. But I will be so happy or it will be worth, If and only if one among you can follow at least once in your life what I am going to say.

1. WHEN YOUR SO NEEDED PERSON EXPIRES?

You should know this in mind from now onwards & every time in your mind. 

You should know that in your conscious, unconscious & sub-conscious mind

THAT  one or the other day the person next to you will leave you(expire, die).

In fact you should always know deep in your heart that the person sitting next to you, your Dad, Your Mom, your Wife/ your Husband, your sister or your brother, or even your best friend who ever it is we are all humans 1 fine day we all will have to die. you should keep this in mind. It is for there own good-> They left you to escape from this beautiful but DIRTY, painful, suffocating, tensed, stressed, depressed, crying & so on. THEN WHY THE HELL ARE YOU CRYING SINCE THEY ESCAPED FROM THESE? HHAAN.

BUT STILL I CANT BLAME YOU, since we are human beings and we are like that only. Just try these ways to escape from these disasters, well I HAD ESCAPED SEVERAL TIMES FROM THESE BELIEVE ME.

   2. WHEN YOUR FRIEND INDEED LEAVES YOU(LONELINESS)?

 Let it be your best friend, your girl/boy friend or even your husband or wife. See it is some thing told for all of us to have a period of loneliness in our life. Either for a long time or for a short time. The mater is, you feel loneliness only when the person whom you love the most is not with you or leaves you for some or the other matter. may be fight, may be have to leave for some other reason or death too. What ever, this loneliness will make you even to feel no more to live in this world. BUT THAT ALSO ONLY AT THE TIME WHEN IT STARTS. Say it when you have broken with your partner you will start to think in this world nobody likes you/loves you, 

But that is not the truth, the truth is all around you likes you but may not be as much as you have got it from your partner. just you where not able to receive it in the right way as you wanted it. when you realizes this, at the same moment you will start to become happy, all your problems gets solved. & that is the most important that to be understood too as well as difficult to understand too.

Imagine you are dead. DO YOU THINK THAT ALL AROUND YOU WILL BE HAPPY AT YOUR DEATH?

DO YOU THINK THEY WILL LAUGH & MAKE PARTY FOR YOUR DEATH?

OR DO YOU THINK THAT ALL YOUR PROBLEMS GET SOLVED BY THIS, DEATH?

NOW IMAGINE YOUR DEAD BODY IS LAYING AT THE MIDDLE OF THE RELATIVES & FRIENDS, Anyway it will be there at any time. or if you are going to do some thing not to get your body also, imagine at the moment of your missing there in between your loved once.

Guys let me tell you it is not as easy even to think that situation. All the person who is around you will cry, your Dad, mom, sister, brother, friends & so on at least some of them. But it will be too late for you to come back & stop there cries, When you realize there love towards you, which is not at all possible, After your behavior.

So please guys don't do any foolish things, which doesn't change what you really want too. In fact it will only increase the problems around you. not just to one but more than what you really can imagine.

so take care of yourself and get the courage to win the life even with problems,  Let me tell you frankly I am also struggling to achieve my success in between the problems what you cannot imagine at all. one after one Troubles & life is too dramatic too me.

& also every one of course fells that there problems are the worst, not at all look at the people who is living at tends, and forest and so on, you wont be able to live in there life style more than a week. But those who learns from there life will succeed indeed. Lets make our own life happy just by what we have with in.

LIVE LIFE LONG, BUT WITH LOVE, SO YOU NEED IT LONGER 2 LIVE

MAKE HAPPINESS, BUT YOU HAVE TO FETCH IT FROM SADNESS

SO STAY HAPPY, BUT YOU NEED TO FIND IT

GOD BLESS YOU ALL

think like this: LIFE & HAPPINESS- How 2 find happiness

think like this: LIFE & HAPPINESS- How 2 find happiness: "Life is full of happiness, but you need to find it between the sorrows. In fact there is more sorrow, more unhappiness, stress, tensi..."

LIFE & HAPPINESS- How 2 find happiness

Life is full of  happiness, but you need to find it between the sorrows.

In fact there is more sorrow, more unhappiness, stress, tension, every thing that makes life unpeaceful. But all that can be made just to happiness. All your sorrows will be gone. only with a simple procedure.
and its just nothing and simple
YOU JUST HAVE TO CONCENTRATE HAPPINESS
I mean any happiness
there will be small small happiness you can find around you, for egs:- when you are so much tensed just look to the kids around you, that kid may be yours or somebody else. look at them how they play, how they fight, etc. get with them get relaxed the simplest way.
just get into the surroundings around you, get talking and just leave all the tension around you.
see the kids- they dont have any tension, the basic thing is they dont care about any thing around them.
 And the most important thing is that you & you only, I didn't mean you as selfishness, here 'you' I meant as how you think? how you can handle one thing? how you can change yourself?

you need to think in a way that nothing is impossible even it is impossible.
you need to forgive to all around you for any mistake. Even if your girl friend have sex with some one in front of you.
that is the mind you needed.


See my friends some time tells me that I am the most happiest man in this world. yes some times it is true it is only because I think in that way. See we all fight me too- but the difference between you and me is the way i think, What i do is even after a fight with my friend, Even I have to put a band aid in my face. i will go to him in 5 mins and speak to him very normally. I will put my hands on his shoulder and talk like nothing happened. 
If you can think in a way like that Then you will find happiness in all the things around you. & definitely dont worry what your friend may think, he will think like how is he so forgivable-listen wont that be good.


There are things around you, which you cannot forgive- Well i am asking you, why you cannot forgive???

 Does your image goes down if you forgive?
What the hell happens Does any one will kill you if you Forgive?
well i am sure that nothing will happen if  you forgive. No one will die.
 This is the basic problem for all human beings
another is- you should think like child when ever it is needed.
 Well I am quite sure that you are afraid to act as a child. You think you are matured. others will blame you when you do like that. What I am asking you is does the person who is blaming you can cure your problems?
you don't need to tell him what you want let him tell what ever he tells
when you want to behave like a child is also important
Most probably it will be when the thing is not in really your control.
eg:- when your office problems makes you a tensed. when some thing stolen. when your girl friend dumped you, etc
Here you have to think like a child when these things happens around a kid.
He will simply forget it after a while he thinks only to enjoy the things around him, he starts to play. just 1 thing where 2 play? how to play? with whom to play?

just one sentence find happiness from others and around you.